Two Donut Day

Happy Valentines Day

2012-02-14T10:22:00.000-05:00

Recalibrating

2012-02-09T18:35:00.001-05:00

Sometimes my brain is mush. I can't hold my end of a conversation, put together a recipe, or go out shopping and return with anything I set out to get. These days are kind of a wash. Please tell me I'm not the only one? So on these days, I sew things together. Cut and sew, cut and sew, recalibrating my head all the while. Sewing a straight line may be my only accomplishment for the day. Oh, I did also have a White House donut today, accomplishment number two. It's the small things, I know:)

Babies Day Out

2012-02-08T13:26:00.000-05:00

I'm loving this stage, can you tell?

Fresh Air

2012-02-06T14:09:00.000-05:00

Taryn dressed the twins, packed their baby bag and went for a stroll around the block today. The preparation took 30 minutes, the walk...about 5.

The Perfect Student

2012-01-31T20:53:00.000-05:00

A quilted pillow for her baby brother. A job very well done.

Rollin 'Em Out

2012-01-30T23:01:00.000-05:00

This one has been talking about being a French chef for years now. She has her own rolling pin and she knows how to use it. She remembers every French word I teach her and I overheard the two chickies trying to put together a conversation in French the other day. That tells me that they are completely ready to delve into foreign language. I'm really looking forward to it because I am really rusty. I'm just lucky at this point that they think my French is better than daddy's Spanish, and that is not saying much believe me.

I finished this bench today and moved it downstairs while it waited on its owner to pick it up. It's always a great feeling to send something out the door. I did have to watch it like a hawk though lest someone think it would make a great baby bed or heaven forbid a dog bed, oh my, not good. It made it through the day, only one close call. Working is very different these days with a house full of people. I don't get near the time to work on upholstery projects anymore, homeschooling is my new job, and cooking. Life ebbs and flows though, I can always pull it out of my back pocket whenever the need arises, trades are good that way.

A Quiet Sunday

2012-01-29T16:54:00.000-05:00

A little playing,

a little decorating,

some coloring,

and yes, a little working,

and a whole lot of marveling at this strange 'instant' snowstorm.

In other words, a two-donut Sunday.

Enchilada Casserole

2012-01-11T16:06:00.000-05:00

This was lunch today. Enchilada Casserole from the Jan/Feb Cooking Light. It was really good. Both chickies helped with the prep, so it actually only took about 30 minutes total. This would be a great company dish as it also has great plate presence. The layers held up really well. I didn't make this as healthy as the recipe suggests though. I have found that reduced sodium anything is not well accepted in my family. I did however top it with plain Greek yogurt and used ground venison instead of beef, both low in fat. Next time I will add black beans I think and serve it with a salad. Both would make the plate a little more pretty.

I've thrown myself into cooking lately to avoid the furniture moving craziness. So far it has worked. Tomorrow we will have company for dinner, so I've selected another recipe from Cooking Light, I'll let you know how it comes out. I've also discovered that Myah has mad chopping and dicing skills. She executes every cutting task with extreme precision, she's like a little food engineer. She likes a very organized work station as well, which has been good for me because I'm a very unorganized, messy cook. She's helped me to slow down and enjoy the process more. It also helps to have time, nothing to rush off to, then there is time to enjoy the meal and everyone can help pitch in on the clean-up.

Crazytown? Anyone?

2012-01-04T18:01:00.000-05:00

It's inevitable, the first week of January ushers in a string of events that make me crazy. I have no one to blame. I bring it all on myself and it's the same EVERY year. Here's how it goes.

1. Take down the Christmas decorations.
2. Make huge mess as I am a firm believer in 'real pine'.
3. Go through bins, organize, consolidate and edit.
4. Ask myself why, why, why is everything I own so extremely fragile.
5. Berate myself for not liking plastic, you snob!
6. Deposit bins safely in attic, whew.
7. Go back into living room, look at mess and cry.
8. Vacuum

This is where it all goes south.

9. Stand back and ponder.
10. Rearrange entire house.

Step ten can take days, weeks even. Every year I do it. I thought I wouldn't this year. Of course I think that every year. I wish I could leave well enough alone. Apparently its my tradition, my own little annual trip to crazytown. I bet you wish you could come. I think I'll document it for you this year, in hopes that I won't do it again next year. Maybe this sad little post will be all that's left of crazy, obsessive furniture mover me. I do hope so.

Best Christmas Present Ever!

2012-01-03T12:05:00.000-05:00

This painting was done by my dear friend Pamela Querin. I unwrapped it Christmas morning and quite literally couldn't breath. It is painted from a picture I took of my girls when they were much smaller. She captured their spirits in the most beautiful way. I will cherish it always.

2011-11-04T12:20:00.000-04:00

I've been gone from this blog for so long. There is so much to tell you, all in due time, I promise. One of the biggest game changers is our decision to homeschool. That is probably why I stopped blogging in July. As soon as the decision was made I went into full on research mode. I didn't have a lot of brain space left for blogging I guess. I've been around long enough to know that the mere mention of that word elicits a myriad of opinions from people. Believe me when I say this decision is made up of equal parts prayer, and study. I've already gone through the fear, anxiety, and doubt and I've come out on the other side....pure joy and contentment. I can't thank some of you enough for your wise words and support through this journey. There is a million things I could tell you but instead I want to show you something I found at a local museum and garden in August.

Pouring into young lives is what I'm about. I realized that when I saw this beautiful work of art. It starts with my children in my home and when I'm faithful to that it extends to other kids and their families.

Both of these children are miracles, one from the loving womb of another faithful woman and one from my own, a totally unexpected blessing. I am committed to learning and growing with them, and pouring over them a life that is full and rich with things that matter to God and our family and others we live life with.

So there it is. This blog won't solely be about homeschooling, its randomness will remain intact. I am glad to be blogging again, life's always changing isn't it, but I will always be looking for that two donut moment in everyday.....and so should you:)

Fall's Fading Light

2011-11-02T21:10:00.000-04:00

The only good thing about losing the leaves is the addition of more light in my living room. This is a lovely afternoon coffee spot now and pretty much throughout the winter, so if you are out and about and need a cup of joe around about 4:30 stop by, I'll leave the sun up for you:)

De-crowned by a Gryffindork

2011-11-01T18:48:00.001-04:00

Moments after this shot was taken Myah accidentally knocked off Taryn's crown with the umbrella. The lovely princess lost her cool and we could hear the yelling half way down the street. The de-crowned snow princess never really regained her cool the rest of the night. Later she called her Harry Potter loving older sister a Gryfindork. Interesting... zero points for yelling and name calling, one point for clever word usage. Give credit where credit is due I guess. We've been laughing about it ever since.

Donut Day is Back

2011-10-27T11:11:00.000-04:00

This morning as the first born emerged from her cozy loft and shuffled past my door, I called out, "What are we going to do today Jigs?" "Eat donuts!" she said enthusiastically. That's my girl. Of course I don't I don't mind at all because I know at lunch she'll be doing this. Homeschooling rocks.

Blueberry Picking

2011-07-13T22:06:00.000-04:00

Two-Waffle Days

2011-07-12T11:56:00.000-04:00

I love summer.

I love kids that sleep in.

I love sleeping in.

I love Eggo Waffles.

I love kids that can fix there own waffles and then bring me waffles.

I love summer, what do you love about summer?

Restaurant Reopens

2011-07-10T14:28:00.000-04:00

A popular neighborhood restaurant reopens today after a total renovation. This new look has certainly influenced the food and the chefs have been hard at work. The food, if not entirely edible, is certainly artfully arranged and will no doubt earn high ratings from the critics.

The name of the restaurant is The Yellow Duck, in the tradition of the two chefs favorite restaurants The Red Pig and The Blue Wolf. Chef and CEO Taryn Scott says that Chefer School is in her future, in Paris of course where according to Scott 'all the good cookers come from'. Although she will wait until Zookeeping School is completed before traveling to Paris to pursue being a chef.

This popular eatery is open sporadically, as the chefs are often distracted by fireflys and bicycles, so as always calling ahead is advised.

2011-07-08T11:33:00.000-04:00

This story starts with a party.

A send off really, not a good-bye forever sort of party. A thank-you for a job well done party. It was lovely.

Then we moved on to another party.

My youngest nephew on Deerslayers side, Michael Ryan, graduated from high school. The whole family gathered in Upstate NY for the festivities.

He's a fun loving sort, you can't help but love to be around him.

Now he will go on to ride his permanently affixed to the ground vintage tractor into his bright future. Love ya kid.

And yes, there were more parties.

Parties where we shot stuff. And stood on large pick up trucks.

Yes, it's true our new motto is 'The family that shoots together stays together.' As long as they don't shoot each other:)

There were parades complete with creepy clowns and unicycles, fireworks and sparklers, tons of food and best of all, plenty of family and friends. There, you are caught up for now.....

Peace out.

Two-Donut Thursday

2011-06-23T16:12:00.000-04:00

It's been way to long hasn't it?

Two-donut Thursday is back with a vengeance today. Deerslayer went way out of his way for these, about 30 minutes past the 30 miles he was already away from home.

And it was worth it!!!!!

Fathers Day Waffles

2011-06-20T11:08:00.000-04:00

I heard one time that men are like waffles, they compartmentalize, and women are more like spaghetti. Think about that one for awhile. I promise to catch you all up here very soon, but right now I have spaghetti coming out my ears:)

It's Official

2011-06-10T08:57:00.000-04:00

Sprinkler days are finally here.

Riding on two wheels, no problem.

Posing for the camera, also not a problem.

Last but least, this one has officially switched roles, now founder and director of On Target Outfitters.

Oh, and he has also officially stopped shaving.

2011-06-04T11:07:00.000-04:00

For my friends in Charleston, love you, miss you, break a leg!

Backyard Sneak Peak

2011-06-02T08:50:00.000-04:00

Big Day for Little Girls

2011-05-23T09:24:00.000-04:00

Look Who's Forty

2011-05-18T10:44:00.001-04:00

Lordy, lordy, this turkey's 40!!!!!!!

Nineteen Years

2011-05-16T11:27:00.000-04:00

We watched Endeavour take off for it's final mission today. I haven't watched a lift-off in years but this one was special because Endeavour landed it's first mission on this day 19 years ago.

We were only 20 years old in this picture. And yes, this is about as artistic as a wedding photo could get back then. As I pulled these pictures out today I had very mixed feelings. I hadn't looked at them in five years or so. So many people are gone that are in those photos. Gone, passed away gone, and gone through divorce gone. Sorry I know that's a depressing thought on one's anniversary but if I'm being honest and that's what one does when blogging, those were my thoughts. Real life is real hard, everybody knows that by now I think.

These kids had a lot going for them though. They knew going in that they would never be rich, their lives probably wouldn't be very conventional, the path would be narrow and sometimes difficult to navigate and most importantly they knew that they weren't doing it alone. The plan was God's plan, find it, follow it and live in it. Pretty simple. Not as simple as first thought, but conceptually still simple. What advise would I give those 20 year olds? Hang on, remember, work hard, keep your head up, be ready, be happy and live:)

2011-05-12T13:27:00.000-04:00

This is a variation on the famous Farm Chicks recipe, Apple Puff Pancake. I had rhubarb....so I tried it. Some bites were a bit tart, but overall a success. A good way to use up rhubarb.

This is a new bread recipe, found here. I've tried many over the last few weeks with varying degrees of success. I'm trying to strike a good balance for all of us. I'm hoping this one is it! It sure does win points in the looks category with it's shiny egg finish and sprinkling of oats.

Lastly I'm excited about this, Boomerang Lilacs, have you seen them? They bloom a second time, shut up, I know! Twice. I love lilacs. They were my wedding flowers, and they will always be my favorites. I still have people tell us that they think of us every time the lilacs bloom. Must mean my anniversary is just around the corner:)

Happy Mothers Day

2011-05-08T18:56:00.000-04:00

It doesn't get any better than this.

The Sun Will Come Out Tomorrow....Hopefully

2011-05-04T19:59:00.000-04:00

The sun came out for just a few minutes this evening, so I put on my waders and snapped a few pictures.

Spring is here. I know it doesn't feel like it but the green grass and blossoms are proof after all.

Hang in there, anytime now, anytime......

Hello Toad

2011-04-22T11:24:00.000-04:00

Toads, that's all I've got. Believe it or not this is the first picture I've taken in awhile. You never know where inspiration will come from.

We've been in Rochester enjoying some time with Grandma this week. Eating, sleeping in and just generally being lazy.

Taryn spotted the toad and was fascinated with it but at the same time wanted nothing to do with it. We were outside in our jammies poking it with a stick trying to see if it would jump. That's a grape in her cheek I think.

Myah on the other hand just reached down and grabbed it, studied it, and explained it's toadyness to us in detail. She's a reptile and amphibian person, awesome.

Taryn and I usually can be seen screaming and running from such things:)

Sewing Room Sneak Peek

2011-04-08T16:53:00.000-04:00

I mentioned the other day that the sewing room was almost done. I maybe forgot to tell you that I ended up taking over the master bedroom in the process. I decided that I could really use the extra space for a large cutting table. Deerslayer doesn't really care where he lays his head, so he was agreeable to the change. Our bedroom will be my old sewing room, a modest 9 by 10 space in the front of the house. Both rooms have been painted a light grey blue. I found a huge 45 by 65 chunk of wood at Ikea that was actually meant to be a headboard. It was the perfect size for the space and was in the clearance room to boot, 39 dollars for a table, sweet. I took down the ceiling fan and installed a 'free' red enamel light given to me by a friend. perfect. The room is still not quite finished but as you can see it is attracting occupants of the small variety. I started with 2, then had 4 before I knew it. I had hoped that this room would be fun and someplace that my girls and the neighborhood girls would want to be, so far so good I guess. A lot sooner than I expected though.

I'm thinking get them in, teach them stuff and poof, instant sweat shop. I told them this was my goal and they just laughed. They have no idea:)

Two-Random Tuesday

2011-04-05T11:30:00.001-04:00

I cannot seem to stay on a roll here with this blogging thing. I think it's just the nature of my life right now. As I debate what to write about and download pictures collected from the last few days, I am realizing that my i photo file is a direct reflection of my brain these last few months. It's a conglomeration of unrelated events.

While I feel like I've become more intentional with marriage and parenting, the two areas that need constant shoring up, the rest of my world feels slightly random. And to be honest the weather isn't helping establish any sort of routine either. Yesterday I worked in my new sewing room (yes, it's almost done:) with the windows wide open. Today I was digging out hats and gloves for the kids again. It's safe to say that the weather is making for an unpleasant populous. Although I can't complain because I know some of you are still dealing with measurable snow. So I suppose we are just all in coping mode doing the things that get us by, and by default it feels kind of random. I'm sure I'm not alone in this feeling. The following are just a few of the things I've been up to lately, in no particular order of course:)

Nobodies birthday Big-top cupcake. Made entirely by the little Chickie's.

Bacon and Blue Cheese Dinner Pies, because who doesn't like bacon.

Happy little girl, because who doesn't like giggling babies.

Birthday donut coffee cup, because who doesn't like donuts....and coffee.....and presents.

Ok, maybe that's not so random.

Dentist, Dinner & Dessert

2011-03-31T20:49:00.000-04:00

Today was Taryn's last dental appt. in a four part series of appts. that involved saving 4 of her baby molars. Apparently when babies come early they might or might not have had time in the womb to develop enamel. That, along with the prescribed liquid diet of double strength formula for her whole first year probably combined to make for some pretty rotten teeth, literally. If we wanted to save them drastic measures needed to be taken. I have so much respect for that profession, it really is amazing what they can do almost painlessly nowadays. She just had more dental work done in the last three months than I've ever had in 39 years. Needless to say she is happy to be done. So happy that she colored him this beautiful picture to hang in his office. The Dr said that we should be very proud of how she handled these long appts. When we were in the car on the way home I told her that she deals with Drs. and pain better than most adults. She very nonchalantly answered under her breath, "Well I've had 4 stitches and my blood sucked out, so I guess I can handle this". Someone once told me that preemies can be characteristically stubborn and strong willed because they struggled early on. In our case, that was the understatement of the century. I can also now see that with direction you can make those qualities work for you and it makes a sort of resilience that can help you in life situations. Interesting to think about.

Well on to the fun stuff. After all that I came home and made a quick supper for those of us whose mouths weren't completely numb. I saw this recipe for Sloppy Joe's on Good Morning America today. It was this ladies twist on the recipe. It was so simple, ground turkey, a can of manwich and half a bag of broccoli slaw, which I completely pulverized so little eyes wouldn't see it. It worked famously. Paired with a blue-cheese and apple spinach salad this meal was complete in about 15 minutes. It was nice to eat a little lighter this evening and it offsets the Handel's ice cream I will be having tonight, wink, wink.

Beer Bread Tuesday

2011-03-30T12:33:00.002-04:00

Yesterday afternoon I realized that I forgot to make the bread. It was already 3:30 and that was not time enough for the proofing, rising, punching and kneading. ooops. Not to fear, beer to the rescue. sorry. I remembered that back in the day we would make beer bread because we had been to the neighborhood Pampered Chef party and oohed and ahhed over the it and the various dips and spreads it was served with. So I googled.

This is what I found. Done in 45 minutes, this was an incredibly easy and fairly nutritious option. I was struck with the fact that I had all the ingredients on hand too. If in fact you find yourself beerless, I'm sure the neighbors would have one. My neighbors don't ever have eggs, milk or anything else I might need in a pinch, but they do have beer, and wine and my mail. And no, I did not plan for the bottle to match my Rachel Ray utensils, it just happened. It did. I took this picture under a skylight in my kitchen, it made the bread look a little pale, I assure you it isn't in real life.

I did also wip up some cheese spread to go with it. Recipe, loosely followed, adapted and modified, here. The best thing about all this is that today for lunch I cut some thick slices and put it under the broiler for a few minutes, you can only imagine how good that was.

Dinner with Dad

2011-03-29T16:20:00.003-04:00

They had a great time. Deerslayer said that Taryn didn't leave his side all evening. This event is one that the elementary school puts on, complete with 1,000 dads and kids. Chaos abounds, I can only imagine. No thanks, but I'm glad they had a good time. I think Myah was a little bummed, this is her first year not going. She and I made smoothies, muffins and did loads of homework. She's a very good baker, very precise, she puts me to shame with her excactness. We have fun working together. She asked me if I liked having a break from daddy once in a while. Sure I said, why, do you like having a break from Taryn? A resounding yes.

Citrus Sunday

2011-03-27T14:07:00.003-04:00

I woke up to these beautiful babies. I stumbled up the steps to make the coffee and I saw them there, right by the basket of fruit and it made me smile.

They even inspired a meal.

A Sunday brunch of sourdough french toast and citrus salad.

I'm Back

2011-03-22T08:25:00.003-04:00

We were actually out of coffee this morning. I know, that rarely happens around here but when it does Deerslayer saves the day. Dunkin Donuts is literally right around the corner. As much as I sometimes complain about suburbia, I will admit that in a coffee emergency it has it's advantages. And for everyone out there who makes fun of my knowledge of all things trivial and my ability to remember every bit of useless knowledge I read or hear, it to has it's advantages when playing scratch off games. I will redeem this little guy post haste.

I've been gone from the blog world for awhile haven't I. I haven't even touched the computer in a week. No reason really, just plugging away here at home with the usual suspects, homework, cooking, visiting with friends, sewing jobs, and room redo's. Is it just me or is time flying.

If you remember, we have some pretty major changes occurring around here in just weeks. Deerslayer will be officially done pastoring very soon. My 15 years of being a pastors wife will be over. Our work with kids however will continue and we are very excited. On Target Outfitters continues to grow and develop by leaps and bounds. I can honestly say that I have no idea what life will be like here soon. I know that I'm feeling better every day and this time of rebuilding and restoring things that have been neglected has been successful. We're quite possibly happier than we have ever been. For that I am thankful.

I should have some room pictures to show you here soon, we've done a major reshuffling to make this house fit our needs just a bit more. It does look like we will stay here for a little while longer. We aren't really sure what kind of property we need at this point so we thought it wise financially to stay here. I'm making peace with that even though it means no garden or animals yet. One dream at a time people, one dream at a time.

Saturday Morning Donuts

2011-03-12T11:56:00.002-05:00

This is the look that makes Daddies all over America do the Saturday morning donut run. I can do this look pretty good too, but she's is much cuter than me in the mornings.

This was our house guest for the week, sadly he went home today, but not without a belly full of donuts. We had so much fun, it was really great having him around. We have five nephews, so we are not newbies when it comes to teenage boys and this one is no less entertaining. We laughed all week. Normally it's little girl world around here, coloring, baking, sewing, doll dressing, but this week was remote control helicopters, wii, spicy buffalo wings, and dog chasing craziness. Throw in a snow day and you have some pretty good chaos, although truth told....I not only contributed, I most definitely egged it on. So thanks Timmy Boy, it was fun.

Myah's Quote

2011-03-10T17:13:00.002-05:00

Soup or Beverage?

2011-03-07T16:54:00.005-05:00

I made butternut squash soup today for lunch. I cheated a little and used already diced squash from the produce section that I found at Walmart.

It tasted great.

It was however....

...... a little on the thin side:)

Burried Alive

2011-03-04T14:54:00.002-05:00

One-Year Anniversary

2011-03-03T14:33:00.004-05:00

Today marks my first full year of blogging.

One whole year filled with pictures and words. I sort of can't believe it.

And if you revisit my first post, you will know that today I have an 11 year old.

Happy Birthday Jigs, I hope you have a two-donut day.

A Day in the Life

2011-03-02T11:29:00.003-05:00

The Pork roast is roasting.

The bread is rising....

....hopefully,

and I'm headed upstairs to sew.

Riveting, I know, life is good. Put that on a t-shirt.

Wedding China...and a Scone

2011-02-26T10:49:00.002-05:00

Wedding China, meet lovely blog readers.

Violets are close to my heart. They remind me of my Grandma, of Mother's Day and of spring.

Back in 1992 when I saw this Noritake pattern, LeParc, I knew they would be mine. Unfortunately the store didn't stock them for my wedding date and most people that shop at the last minute couldn't wait for them to come in. I ended up with 2 sets. Bummer.

So over the next 4 years I bought more sets whenever I could. The pattern was discontinued in 1996, speeding up the process. I ended up with service for 8 and a tea pot. I've never seen this pattern anywhere else.

It may not have been a winner with most consumers, but I'll always love it.

Daily Bread

2011-02-24T14:59:00.005-05:00

I've been on another baking kick lately. This recipe is foolproof and simple as they come. I don't have a ton of experience with bread making, but using the kitchen aid for this one makes it easy. I put the other unbaked loaf in the freezer until the first loaf is gone and yes, it actually rises a bit in the freezer, weird. I haven't quite won the war against white flour yet in this house. I love all things wheat and bake with it a lot and the kids don't really notice, but bread... they notice. Next, I'll move on to learning a recipe with a little more nutritional value. I try to convince myself that white bread made from scratch is still better than store bought right? After I master bread making, I've already decided to tackle cheese making, I can't wait. Can you?

Early Birthday

2011-02-22T11:09:00.008-05:00

This weekend we had a little early birthday party for Myah. We were at my parents house for a visit and everybody knows that when families are separated by miles birthdays are whenever you can arrange them.

Gather whoever can make it, grab some balloons, an ice cream cake and presto, you have a party.

We lucked out and even arranged at the last minute for Myahs friend Autumn and her parents to come. This family is very special to us. Izzy, Autumns mom is one of my very best friends from the time I was 16 til the present. We were even next door neighbors for 4 years at which time we arranged to have (or acquire in our case) these girls 6 months apart.

They grew to the age of 4 together before we crushed everyone by moving 3 hrs. away. They've stayed friends and each when asked who their best friend is will still say each other. Of course that doesn't surprise Izzy and I, we know how they feel. Distance doesn't touch friendship. Our long time friends Sandy and Dwain were able to come too. All of them together with my family of course made for great little party.

All of the people that were in our house 11 years ago on that early spring day when
Myah joined our family were together again. We're blessed to have friends and family that didn't kill us for moving away, they just take us when they can get us and make us feel loved every time we're there.

Post party, the last one standing, well he was standing two minutes before I took this picture. Grandma won. Thanks mom for throwing a party for your last daughter and your first granddaughter, we loved it.

A Grateful Donut Girl

2011-02-16T14:09:00.006-05:00

These are for you my friends, you who encouraged me greatly this week. The one who brought me emergency chocolate. The one who texted me donut pictures. The one who engaged me in a delightful chat all about donuts at church on Sunday, I think you knew it would cheer me up...and it did. I got breakfast and lunch with two different friends and a surprise supper cooked by my lovely family....my goodness, if it was your idea to make me feel loved, you all sure accomplished the task and then some.

The biggest thing I have missed since moving to this area 8 years ago has been a sense of community. God knows I have lamented about this fact for a long time. Someone once told me that it takes 10 years to really feel at home in a new place. I think this week you all collectively sent a message, and you didn't even know you were all working together did you? Well, guess who knew and delivered this message in the most wonderful package right to my doorstep. Yes, I am grateful today.......two-donut grateful. Thank You

Happy Valentines Day

2011-02-14T11:45:00.001-05:00

A Little Makeover

2011-02-11T16:31:00.004-05:00

It was time for a little makeover. She needed an update, a new look, something to take her from day to evening.

I had just the thing. A classic do, for her rather boxy frame. No, she doesn't have the curves that others have, but that's why she's perfect. Straight lines are easier to dress after all.

Ahhh, she likes it, mid-life crisis averted..... for now.

Bravery Day

2011-02-10T09:33:00.010-05:00

I've been following a blog for quite some time now. She is Shannon, aka. Flower Patch Farmgirl. You really need to visit her blog, there's no reason for me to repeat anything to you, I wouldn't do it justice. She is an amazing writer who is able to convey so much through her words. Read back a couple of days, oh and give yourself some time, trust me you'll be there awhile. Trust me again... this post will make a lot more sense if you click on that link first.

Where to start. If you've noticed I haven't been to wordy in my posts of late. Just pictures, little explanation, nothing newsy. In fact, the other night at a Super Bowl party, one of you-my lovely followers, and my friend, noticed this little factoid and asked me about it. I think I said something like, I know, I know I'll work on that. You let me off the hook with a hug and an invite for a meal. I was clearly not feeling well that night.

Yes, it's true there is some stress in my life right now. I think I'm building my very own, personal, concrete bunker. Or maybe it's more like a pressure cooker, or possibly a panic room, do you get where I'm goin' here. Let me give you a hint, IT ISN'T GOOD.

I'm normally pretty easy going, a real stop and smell the flowers, hey let's have a donut kind of girl. But frankly, lately, raving lunatic is the word that comes to mind. If you don't believe me, I'll invite you over to see the box of broken things that is starting to collect in my laundry room. That's right, I'm throwing inanimate objects, at least so far they are inanimate. There are a lot of things that I'm discovering about myself lately.

1.) I'm really not all that patient. I thought I was, or maybe I used to be, but no.

2.) I can build unrealistic worlds and live there quite comfortably......for a little while anyway.

3.) I don't know how to handle the pressures of being a pastors wife, there I said it.

4.) I don't know how to handle the pressure of a good many things.

5.) Do I fear failure, or do I set myself up for failure? take your pick, it's bad either way.

6.) I have pmdd. I hate it. Feels like my body and my mind have betrayed me. I need to get help.

7.) Number six is probably a HUGE part of my problems right now, I'm confident that can be fixed. No worries. My cell phone however-can't be fixed, don't ever throw one of those. It's expensive. That doesn't make your husband very happy. Oh, and remember to thank your bff for giving you their very nice old phone, thus unknowingly rescuing you from said husband. Timing is everything people.

Why am I telling you all of this? Because it's Bravery Day. Because I'm joining you, my blog friends, in saying that I have no energy to handle my life on my own. Some of you are dealing with cancer, infertility, divorce, loneliness, bitterness, how do I know this? Because someone cared to ask you, and you, in an unspoken alliance with others like you and our all knowing, all powerful God decided to be brave and speak up. And because of that, someone is praying for you today, and I know someone is praying for me today, because she told me she was and I believe her. Doesn't that make a difference to you? It does to me. I have expectations today. I believe God is going to help me release the pressure on my self imposed cooker. He's going to permanently destroy that stinkin valve so that I can no longer crank up the heat. I'm going to have a short but loud discussion with satan about him using my pot to cook his supper in. It's not happening anymore..... Wow, I like Bravery Day.

Thanks Shannan, and everybody that's being brave today, tomorrow and for the duration, these pictures are for you. Oh, and I love you more than Donuts.

Donut Inspiration

2011-02-07T20:59:00.003-05:00

Need a little inspiration today? I did.

Donut inspiration is the best kind.

Sometimes it's the only kind that works.

After School Snack

2011-02-03T15:09:00.002-05:00

Frozen

2011-02-01T13:12:00.002-05:00

2011-01-30T17:21:00.003-05:00

She's at it again.

I keep telling her she's going to rot her brain, but she doesn't believe me.

2011-01-28T16:39:00.003-05:00

Remember these? They remind me of elementary school and my grandma's house. The picture of simplicity these little babies are. Graham crackers and icing. I have no idea why I thought of them today, but I'm glad I did, so is everyone else who lives here.

Library Day

2011-01-20T13:36:00.001-05:00

A Beagle Post

2011-01-19T21:56:00.001-05:00

Then....

and now, not much has changed.

Colorful Monday

2011-01-17T15:40:00.002-05:00

Myah is busy at work designing her own boots. She probably should be doing her science.

The girls received this cool little Fashion Design Sketch Portfolio for Christmas. It has sketches of different girls, two per page, and lots of stencils for clothing, accessories, and shoes.

It is really great. I have to say I'm slightly addicted to it too.

Taryn's girl-complete with a three-tiered Ombre Blouse and Bermudas, I'm so proud. It's almost like she watched the sheet dying segment on Martha Stewart today or something.

And me? I'm really busy too:)

My Gift

2011-01-14T16:31:00.006-05:00

Wish you were here.

It just seemed like good day for brownies, and these are no ordinary brownies. I can't give you the recipe though, as they were a gift from a friend. The beautiful cake plate also a gift, same friend. I know, you want my friend to be your friend, sorry.... mine.

The table was Deerslayers grandmothers. Thousands and thousands of cookies were rolled out on this very table, nary a scratch on it's lovely enamel. She was famous for her cut-outs at Christmas time.

Big day tomorrow for us. Deerslayer has organized an archery tournament at one of the local schools. There will be about 50 kids from 5th-8th grade participating. It should be fun. It has been great working with him on the non-profit business. I'm learning the ropes and enjoying it.

If only the target was a donut, I think I'd hit it every time.

This Morning

2011-01-12T11:31:00.002-05:00

My six-thirty wake up was wonderfully extended to 8, thanks to the snow, making time for Pumpkin chocolate chip muffins.

The 'babies' got some extra play time with their devoted mommy, then were left rudely when the district decided to go to school after all, sorry Taryn.

I will leave them in exactly the same spot awaiting your return, and I will feed them lunch like I promised.

A project awaits me upstairs in my makeshift upholstery room. Yes, that's right, I'm back in the saddle again.

While most kids went to college and got degrees, I learned a trade. It served me well back in the day, but with moving 8 years ago and loosing space and time, it has fallen by the wayside.

I am coming out of retirement, for how long and to what extent I do not know, but it does feel good. Remember the bedroom project? Well, we decided we like our temporary lower level bedroom, especially because it has a fireplace. The bedroom is painted and awaiting trim, so I thought I'd take advantage of an empty room to set up a temporary shop. I'll use it until March or so, see how the work is going and decide at that time if this is something that will work for us or not. We are still planning to put the house on the market in the spring, at which time we should convert it back to a bedroom and return the lower level back into the family room. Don't want to confuse the buyer now do we. Well enough rambling for now, time to get to work! Enjoy the snow everyone, you might as well because apparently there is no end in sight.

A Donut Post

2011-01-11T11:25:00.004-05:00

It's been a while since I've posted about donuts and I do have a reputation to uphold now don't I, so yesterday a friend and I went on a little outing. The destination was IKEA which is about an hour away in Pittsburgh. In a little town about half way there is a donut shop called DeAngelis Donuts, their tag line? Delightfully Different Since 1947.

The case did look a bit different, the varieties were just a little different also, it took a minute to take them all in and make a decision. I decided on a Boston creme, chocolate frosted pictured above, and of course took some home to the donut lovers I've spawned. I'd have to say that their claim of being delightfully different, seemed true. My friend Betsy and I decided that the creme was wonderful and the dough was actually not as sweet as usual. It did make for a 'delightful combination'. The old fashioned glazed was called Maple Glazed, as were many of the other varieties I noticed. Now, I'm sorry to say that I'm not a big fan of maple, so I was worried that many of the donuts would be ruled out for me, but I bought one anyway. Taryn was my tester, she calls all glazed donuts 'sticky donuts' and this is primarily what she orders. I knew she wouldn't let me down, turns out she loved it, maple and all. The glaze was ever so slightly maple flavored and again, 'delightfully different' held up. This morning, I had just a nibble of the sugar donut and even day old, it was light and fluffy. All in all a good donut shop, complete with quirky, very pleasant workers. There were of course tons that I didn't try, so a return trip will certainly be needed so that I can make an entirely accurate assessment:)

2011-01-05T13:14:00.002-05:00

Last year my Christmas presents from Deerslayer were these lovely Rachel Ray pots and pans. I've used them for a whole year and I love them. They are extremely easy to clean and the orange handles make me happy.

This year my sainted Mother-in-Law bought me all the utensils to go with them. I did not see this coming at all. Happy indeed.

Now that our schedule has lightened up a lot, I'm am pleased to get back to my usual lunch routine. Oh, my goodness she said the word schedule and the word routine in one sentence. If I say the word list and plan in the next sentence you will know someone is holding me hostage. No, I'm all by myself today, no one is here, it is beautifully quiet, amazingly quiet. Can you tell I'm happy about that little fact.
Yes I'm back to my 'lunches for one' where I eat whatever I want, no complaining little people, no husband to fill up, just little old me. I clip out recipes that I know won't fly with the general populous of people in this household and make them. Actually I don't even use a recipe half of the time, I just use the time to experiment with different flavors and herbs and such. Many happy accidents have resulted, even some that I do use for the family. I don't spend a lot of extra money on this venture, believe me I can make a bag spinach and some goat cheese last awhile. I have some blogs I visit regularly for new ideas and inspiration, other moms that have undoubtedly discovered the joys of 'lunch for one'. I know a lot of moms who feel guilty spending even one half hour on themselves during the day....I'm not one of them. I figure that I work second shift really, from the time that first child arrives home until around 9:00pm, I'm on family time. Then husband time kicks in after that for a couple of hours. It just works best if I get some of my creative angst out of the way early in the day. I was born with a lot of it, if I don't find little outlets for it my system goes haywire, hence the photography, the sewing, the cooking, the decorating. Living artfully I guess you'd call it. I like it. I have to do it. It's the way I was made. Try it, start little, stay little if you want, but try it. And my male readers, I know you're out there, it applies to you too. Buy donuts for your families this weekend, bring them home and pull out a nice platter and arrange them. Sit down together and have a chat, serve them milk in nice glasses, (notice I've avoided the word pretty) and enjoy each others company. They will love it, and it will make you happy too!

Favorite Things

2011-01-03T20:13:00.000-05:00

"Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul, and sings the tune without the words, and never stops at all."- Emily Dickinson

A Donut Toast to 2011

2011-01-02T15:33:00.000-05:00

Today I am ringing in the new year in style. Jammies and Chinese take-out, in bed, watching TV with my chickies. No church, no plan, no problem. Just Sesame Chicken, something on a skewer and Hannah Montana Forever. Well first we watched HGTV's Dream house and Myah will be registering everyday to win it, who says I can't delegate. My mood as depicted by Taryn's new Buttery fly mood necklace is excellent. I even entertained (or rather scared) the children with a rousing rendition of Oklahoma. I'm not sure where that came from, maybe my late 80's Glee Club days. There is a point here and I'm getting to it, I promise. As everyone weighs in on New Years resolutions, and thoughts about this coming year, I will simply tell you that I am going to live this year. You mean like live it to the fullest? Yes, hopefully. Live like there is no tomorrow? Maybe, if it applies. Live like no one else? Well, I'm not anybody else, so yes. You see I'm in a unique position, we all are. We don't get to choose, or plan, or predict. And if you think we do, I must have missed that memo. The split second things that change your life are going to happen, it's silly to live like they won't. The difference between last year and this year is that last year only lives on in your memory, it controls you only if you let it. The future is wide open, don't try to control it, you'll only be disappointed. I can't be upset about what I can't control, let's be honest, the list is long. I can only do what God has put right in front of me for now. I've made some decisions of late, I will no longer be working for 34west. It is a decision that was beyond difficult to make. I had to laugh a little this morning as I watched Miley Stewart struggle with the decision to give up Hannah Montana. Even though I'm not giving up an alter ego rock star image, I am giving up something I dearly love. I just simply can't do it all and do it all well. I need and want to support Deerslayer in his non-profit venture, I think it's a great thing and I think it's grown to where he needs me, and I'm happy to be needed. His official job as a Children's Pastor will be ending in May, although his life's work will always be about children and youth, a w-2 won't reflect that after May. This year will be a huge transition, we will need to sell the house and find a simpler spot to be. We need to fix a few things that have been neglected and concentrate on the task at hand. To tell you the truth, what I found daunting a few weeks ago, I no longer do, I feel ready, strangely calm. In closing, I would like to thank those of you who know this story and stay around helping us and listening to our crazy rantings. To all of you who haven't met me face to face and still listen to my crazy rantings. There is nothing I wouldn't do to have donuts with all of you and tell you how much I love you. So raise your donuts high and toast to 2011, what you hold only one person knows, so let's make it a two-donut year!

On the Road Again

2010-12-29T16:46:00.000-05:00

Hi all, that's right I'm headed out of town again for the fifth time since Thanksgiving. All this packing and repacking is starting to make my head spin. Nothing hits my closet, it goes directly from suitcase to washer, then from dryer back to suitcase. Life is really changing fast around here, someday soon I will fill you all in, I promise. A donut and a visit, that's what we'll have. So until I'm back, take a look at this from one of my nearest and dearest.

My Brown Eyed Girl

2010-12-26T21:50:00.000-05:00

You don't really need a coupon for a doughnut run in our house, but I suppose some people do:)

This one is always happy. That makes me happy.

Merry Christmas

2010-12-25T22:23:00.000-05:00

We made it to Grandma's at 3:00am this morning, slept for a few hours and had a great day here in the snowy east. After a few of Grandma's cut outs and about a gallon of coffee we were in business. We're looking forward to a couple of quiet days here with the family. Hope you all had a very Merry Christmas.

She's Seven

2010-12-19T22:43:00.000-05:00

Into the Snowy Wild

2010-12-14T09:39:00.000-05:00

A 'two-cinnamon roll day' has been officially declared by my first born....I'm so proud.

I'm actually going on a road trip today, one similar to the scene above, there will most assuredly be snow and windshield wipers, but I'm not sure about the man in the sequined scarf. I will see him later though, when Jingle-Jingle Wedding Bells hits the stage in 'Donutland' tonight. The show must go on folks, we laugh in the face of inclement weather. Well, maybe we don't laugh exactly, maybe more like a little snicker....a nervous, little, snicker. My cream stick awaits, my reward for traveling into the snowy wild. I'm pretty sure I'd drive through anything for an Amish Door creme stick, oh and for my friends and co-workers who are waiting for me there too, I'd drive through anything for them too, uh-huh I would:) See ya on the snowy flip-side.

More Decorating

2010-12-11T15:46:00.001-05:00

I finally got my mantle done, it took for-ev-er, but it turned out pretty well I think.

And this pesky pantry, what a job.

You know I don't have much to work with people, what did you expect.

I think if I just had a few more things, then I'd be in business.

Yes, now that it is all up, I think I'll do a few things different next year.

I'm sorry, I had to do it. This is not my house. It is The Arms Family Museum in Youngstown, Ohio. I had the great opportunity to go in and photograph it for them. They do not allow photos in the museum, so they decided to have some in print for people to take home. It was an amazing experience. If you are in the area, you have to see this special Christmas Exhibit. My friend Rebecca works there and would be thrilled if you came. If you love vintage, old mansions and Christmas in general, it will blow your mind. Rebecca was kind enough to give me some passes and I decided that I would like to give two of them to you. Leave a comment telling me about your favorite Christmas decoration and I'll stick all your names in a hat. I'll draw one out and announce the winner on Tuesday morning, that gives you two and a half days or so to comment. You have to play to win people! Oh, and when you go to the museum you will have the opportunity to meet the people who really did the decorating, because it wasn't me. I'm pretty sure some planning was involved and remember from yesterdays post, that's not likely to happen around here:)

P.S. The drawing will of course work best for my local readers, but it you're interested in a road trip, Mi casa es tu casa.

Christmas Decorating

2010-12-10T16:42:00.000-05:00

I've been slowly decorating little corners of my home the last few days. While most of my Christmas things are vintage and collected over the years, I have added a few new things too.

I painted these letters last year and decided to put them in a new spot this year.

This brings me to one of my little quirks. I very rarely want or can do things the same way twice. I don't know where it came from or what made me this way, but it is terribly annoying at times. The downfalls are numerous; like instead of feeding the dinner guests a recipe that's tried and true, I will always try out something different, and I don't mean different in a good way always. When it comes to clothes, I might nail down a great outfit, but I won't often wear it that same way again, even if people really liked it. Most of my furniture is on castor's, for obvious reasons. I have friends with iPhones on speed dial, so that they can get me back on the right road when I get turned around after trying to blaze a new path to no avail. You get the picture. Calendars and routine schedules are not my friends. Don't get me wrong, I think traditions are great..... if you change them every year. See? I am crazy.

There are so many times when I would love to say, "The Christmas Village goes here, the nativity goes there, the tree always sits in that perfect spot in front of the window."

I really would like to know those things sometimes, but I just can't, it's not in my DNA. If there was a pill for it, I'd be tempted, because I really do bang my head on the wall sometimes. And I think other people would like to bang my head against a wall sometimes too.

My friend ...the one with the iphone ...that I call for directions, took this picture when we were in in Columbus this summer. I just dug through my emails to find it, it's perfect for this post.

So I told you my Quirk, what's yours?

Scenes From a Snowy Monday

2010-12-06T19:52:00.000-05:00

Two-Donut Weekend

2010-12-06T11:52:00.000-05:00

Any weekend that involves these beauties can't be bad.

A party with friends,

some tree trimming, and....

...... a visit from my oldest nephew, his wife and pooch. Yes, it was, a Two-Donut Weekend.

The Perfect Snowflake

2010-12-03T08:29:00.000-05:00

This little snowflake is Jaden, my little niece. She and Taryn were born only one day apart. They look so similar to each other, we call them twin cousins. They are separated by a 3 hour car ride though, but when they do get to spend time together they are inseparable.

Our family isn't huge and has many age gaps, but I think it's nice that way. The little ones really look up to the big ones and the older ones are so good to the younger. I think we all benefit. The little ones have watched them perform in plays, sporting events, graduations, weddings and prayed for them when they've been far away. The older have held crying babies, put up with hours of crawling around on the floor, wii, and some rather crazy get togethers. They will probably have a pretty good idea of what having children will mean, they will know what is expected. They've never shied away from any of it over the years.

I think this wedding has made me reflective, and happy. I'm getting more sentimental as I age I guess, it feels natural, something I certainly won't fight. Every experience means more, you want to slow the clock and the calendar down so you won't miss anything. I also feel like as I get more adept with my camera, I'm actually 'seeing' more. I've always taken pictures, ever since the ancient darkroom days, but now it's just different. The camera has turned into a portal of sorts, a window that makes it possible to view anything on the other side of the lens differently and more thoughtfully than you would have before. If the subject is created by man, I'm thinking about who created it, how did they make it so beautiful, how can I do it justice. If the subject is created by God, I think the exact same thing. The other day, Myah was singing a jingle, over and over and over, I finally asked what she was doing. She said and I quote, "I'm practicing my Super Hero Theme Song, everyone should have one." After I laughed for quite a long time, we discussed what super power we would have. No one could quite decide on ice or fire, shrinking or growing, but later I thought of one. Seeing people and things for exactly what they are, sure sometimes the 'light' might be unflattering and sometimes the 'image' could be too perfect, but at least you would know and you could go from there. The more time goes on I realize that that it takes depth to capture things in this manner. So I guess I would be Depth Girl. On second thought, being able to control the weather would be pretty cool too:)

2010-11-30T17:13:00.000-05:00

I went from Jingle, Jingle Wedding Bells to real wedding bells over last weekend.

My nephew was the groom. His bride Miranda, planned a flawless black and white themed affair. It was beautiful, every detail.

My mom and dad and the grand kids decked out in their glittery party dresses.

Now I have two beautiful nieces and I couldn't be any happier. Those nephews of mine....they're good boys.

Two Turkey Day

2010-11-22T18:49:00.000-05:00

I know it's a bit early,

Thanksgiving is still four days away.

These two turkeys are demanding an audience.

I dare say that they won't make it until Thanksgiving day, but wouldn't they be cute sitting on on the dinner plates just staring up at your guests. I think that would be very funny.

Who wouldn't rather have Bavarian Creme stuffing anyway?

Christmas at the Inn

2010-11-10T14:06:00.000-05:00

You don't want to miss this....trust me.

We are all busy at work on the new Christmas show which will open to a sold out house next week at the Amish Door in Wilmot Ohio (or 'Donutland' as I affectionately call it sometimes). Things are coming along and looking good I think. I got a request for an adult size costume just like the one I made for Taryn on Halloween.

Here's how that one turned out, sorry for the blurry picture, low light I guess. I'll take a picture of the larger one tonight when I finish it. It's a little different, same gist. There's all kinds of crazy characters in this years show. 'Jingle, Jingle Wedding Bells' is the title, so there will of course be some kind of wedding dress, not sure yet what exactly it will be like. It's all peculating in my brain, waiting to burst forth. Unfortunately my best work is done in the wee hours of the morning, when it's quiet and free of distractions. I've always been a night owl. Even when the kids were babies and good sense was telling me to sleep when they slept, I still would stay up just to collect myself in the quiet of the night. Quiet...oh how I love quiet. My brain likes quiet, my soul thrives on quiet. Even if I'm tired the next day, it's usually worth it, the amount of work I can get done in the night is far and away greater than the work I do during the day. It just takes a few more cups of coffee and maybe a power nap in the afternoon, no big deal. Speaking of power nap.......

Your Inner Star

2010-11-04T11:33:00.000-04:00

Dear American Girl Doll Company,

YOU'RE KILLING ME. Let me back up a little....the other day I was finishing up some work and I needed to find a little project to keep my daughter busy for about 30 min.

I said, "Look honey, the new catalog came in the mail today, why don't you mark the things that you like, and we'll think about it for Christmas and your birthday." I then produced a brand new package of star Post-its, and she was off.

Thirty minutes later, she skipped past my office and deposited this on my desk.

She used the entire package of Post-its, every page was covered with at least 5-10.

She was quite convinced that she would be getting all of it for Christmas. You see somewhere in my explaining to her, I forgot to say that she should only mark a few of her very favorite things. Not 50. I am in such big trouble now, so thanks a lot.

I know what you're thinking, it's not your fault....well that's where you are wrong. Your product is too darn cute, it is too well marketed, and I .... I mean she.... loves absolutely everything and it's impossible to choose.

Then I noticed something just under the American Girl title, go ahead and read that little sentence. Uh-huh, that's right, well she followed it, no problem there, coincidence? I think not American Girl. Signed, Dead in Ohio.

Today

2010-11-02T23:09:00.000-04:00

Today I said goodbye to my stash of decorating magazines. I know, it was sad. The closet they have comfortably resided in is getting an overhaul. They can no longer live there. They have been given the boot. I looked through them one last time then got them ready for recycling. As I looked through them I thought about all the places we've lived, the rooms painted, updated and decorated. I thought about all 'me' time I had as I looked forward to a cup of coffee and a quick or long bit of reading on a snowy Saturday morning or a lazy hour on the back deck when the kids were in their sandbox. Once I saw them in the big box all together I shuttered to think about the money spent on them, and maybe the time that could have been better used. It was a mixed feelings sort of day today, about a lot of things. As I tore out dream rooms and houses and stashed them in a binder, just in case I might need them, I thought about life. What else am I ready to let go? What are the things taking up valuable square footage in my mind. What are the things that I'll tear out and protect. I know, deep thoughts while cleaning out a closet. Well that's me folks, I can find meaning in almost anything, for better or worse, I guess. I didn't come to any huge conclusions, just thinking, pondering, saying goodbye.....to things.

Books and Spinach

2010-11-01T21:20:00.000-04:00

Some days I doubt my parenting abilities,

this particular moment in time.....not so much.

Two Muffin Morning

2010-10-29T08:52:00.001-04:00

Climbing back into bed with these.....because I can.

Have a great weekend! Don't eat too much candy.

P.S. I fixed my format issues on yesterdays post, or I should say Deer Slayer did. Sorry to leave you all hanging, it was a little anticlimactic without the pictures:(

Bedroom Makeover

2010-10-28T09:28:00.000-04:00

The before picture. Not horrible, but a little ho, hum. We actually really like the color of the walls, Krypton, Sherwin-Williams, but the problem that motivated this whole undertaking is under that quilt on the back wall.

The wall was never prepared properly for wall paper. You and I know what that means. Scraping and steaming to no avail, chunks of wall were removed every time someone tried to fix it. I've hidden it under Anglypta wall paper, and a giant quilt. It was passable but the thought of leaving that mess for the next homeowner kept me up at night. When we took the house off the market in August, the girls room was first, then this. I would also like to do the kitchen back splash and counters, but lets keep that our little secret;)

At first I wasn't really going to consult Deer Slayer in my little redecorating scheme, but since he was doing the work of repairing the wall I felt guilty. And before you think it's strange that I wouldn't consult him, let me tell you that the family room is covered with animals. Not pictures of animals... actual animals. Three deer heads, an antelope, a bear rug and a coyote pelt. So don't go thinking I wear the pants in this family. He just tends to leave the rest of the house up to me, meaning he is lucky as all get out that I agree to his 'decorating choices'.

One day I was just feeling like a true decorating collaboration was in order. I don't want him to feel alienated by a space that he shares and keeps all his clothes in. So I started asking him his opinion. I asked about wall color first and he said tan. Tan is a bad word in this house. I kept my inner screaming... well, inside and I set about changing his mind. I eventually got him to some other color choices and we arrived at the picture above. He even surprised me by mentioning that we get a new bed or attempt making something like the one above. I didn't protest, I wasn't going to go there, but I know when to jump on an opportunity. The wall color is very similar to the one we have now, but I think we'll lighten it up a bit. The room is north facing and tends to be a little dark and cold feeling. I also loved the lamps and the little striped foot stools. I was feeling very encouraged by our successful decorating compromise then after he went to sleep I found this......

This is so 'me'. I nearly fainted. I love the light gray walls, the touches of pink and the sign. I love the blankets on the perfect green chippy trunk. Sigh. Just for kicks I showed him in the morning. He said, "That's fine, we have that bed, it just needs painted black." I waited for him to start laughing.....still waiting, nothing. I said,"I won't do that much pink, I won't have a sign or a blanket that says 'Love'".....waited, "Ok", he said. Ok?, last night he wanted a tan room. Today he says "Ok" to gray and pink? Part of me is saying run to the stores and get this done before he changes his mind, but the other part is saying stick with the first picture, you both liked it, honor the fact that you collaborated successfully. So there is my dilemma, any words of wisdom?

Getting a Grip

2010-10-27T09:40:00.000-04:00

Blogging has taken on a different look and feel for me now that the school year is in full swing. I know I've said it already, but having a middle schooler is soooooo different. She has adjusted much quicker than I have that's for sure. I feel like I need to clone myself, I know I already did, that's not who I'm referring to at the moment. I need a clone who can drive, cook, do 5th grade homework, and get up happily at the crack of dawn. My 'fly by the seat of my pants' ways are catching up with me. I find myself preaching to her about having a schedule, planning better, thinking ahead, yada, yada, yada. I need to get a grip here people. I've been a lousy example. I'm out of my element for sure. But guess what? Luckily I have people around me that have done this before, that are doing it currently and who have way more responsibilities in total than I have. It's time to listen and learn. So in the absence of a more daily blog, here are some highlights of the week so far.

Upward Basketball wrapped up it's season on Saturday. It was a great season for Myah, she loved it. What's not to love about Upward. Lesson here, the fall season is the ticket, six weeks opposed to 10 in the dead of winter. Win win.

I helped Deer Slayer with his weekly On Target program at the Middle School. Check out the kid far right, I think someone is pleased with himself.

Myah needed a costume for dance class last night. I threw this one together in a half hour. A dress up bin dress, tiara and iron on letters, the possibilities are endless. I let her pick her title, this dress had a tropical feel to it we thought and could be worn with flip flops, a plus.

The bedroom is all kinds of disarray, but progressing. I need to get out and pick a paint color.

I worked most of the day yesterday on this little number. In contrast to my easy going, do whatever you want to mom, 10 year old, the youngest member of this house has definite opinions and ideas when it comes to costumes. She formulates early, researches books and inspects my work. She trys to motivate me early and asks lots of questions along the way, just to keep me on track you know. God has a sense of humor and I have a feeling he finds much of the interaction between me and my youngest, very funny. Those of you who know me and know her undoubtedly do as well. I am happy to say that this cute dress and cape made the cut, whew. The Egyptian costume I labored over last year however, did not. You never know. And yes, I am lucky enough to have a child size dress form. I found it years ago in an antique store in Upstate NY, and couldn't wait until the kids got big enough for me to use it. In the years of costuming for 34west I have gathered quite a collection of left over bits and bobs just waiting to be made into something new. I love recycling textiles and notions, it's so rewarding to be able to come up with another entire costume out of things you already have. I know... it's the small things, they keep me goin people. Speaking of the small things, I think a trip to the farm market might be in order today......

Redeamed

2010-10-24T14:14:00.000-04:00

It's been a busy week around these parts. Zero time to blog, but much to blog about. The first item of big news, Deer Slayer has lived up to his name and provided for his family. Sorry if that is offensive, but that's how we roll. Secondly, the October murder mystery by 34West had it's opening weekend in DonutLand. The show was successful and I ate way to many creme sticks.

Thirdly, our bedroom is getting an overhaul, DS is mudding a new wall as we speak. A new coat of paint, bedding, window treatments and a couple of pieces of furniture should do the trick. Let the fun begin. I'm planning on using mostly vintage pieces, livened up of course. The budget is tight but that doesn't scare me to much. Maybe I'll try to post a few before and after projects here just to keep things interesting. This week will be another busy one, more costumes to construct (for my in house clients of the small but demanding variety:) more murder mystery craziness on the weekend, and the usual housekeeping things, cooking, cleaning, 5th grade homework. I hope this queasy feeling I woke up with goes away soon, I actually think for the first time in history, I may have eaten one to many donuts. I don't really want to see one at least for two days, then I should be better;)

Sunday Drive and Dinner

2010-10-18T19:16:00.000-04:00

My parents surprised us with a short visit this last weekend. I know, I know, it's Wednesday, this is old news, just stick with me for one minute. Myah used my iPhone to capture our lovely day with the parents.

This was our destination, The Spread Eagle Tavern in Hanoverton, Oh. By the way, sorry for driving like a maniac to make our reservation, I kind of forgot how hilly it is in these parts.

This place just oozes history, sorry oozes is probably not a great word to use at a restaurant. The place is huge and creaky with a brick basement like you wouldn't believe. I should mention that my dad is a brick mason and I just knew he would love this place. They also love colonial architecture and anything historic.

Our family has been to just about every historic spot worth mentioning in about a four state radius. Williamsburg, Jamestown, Mt. Vernon, Shakertown, Quakertown, ok, I made up that last one, but you get the picture. And speaking of pictures, dad was quite a photographer in his day. When the pictures got developed, there was at least 20 that were brick walls, fireplaces, streets, artistic inspiration, I get it now, it all makes so much more sense now that I'm grown up. Somehow I know you are trying to find a client this week who wants a vaulted brick ceiling, am I right? Yes, you laugh, but you are thinking about it every waking minute, I know you.

We had a lovely lunch. Our friend Aaron joined us too. Thanks Myah for your photography assistance, next time try to squeeze in your dad and little sister:)

A Diner Substitution

2010-10-15T10:59:00.000-04:00

Deer Slayer got called away on church business today, and actually I should change his name to Deer Stand Sitter, the Slayer part hasn't happened in quite some time, I know because my freezer is fairly empty. It doesn't get much more organic than that folks. Anyway, I was saying that since he is gone today, our diner outing for Friday was cancelled. I promise you though that I can channel a diner better than anyone I know, so that didn't stop me from having Diner Friday right here at home.

Incidentally the girls were off school today, so we got out the diner cups, of which there is quite a choice I assure you. The girls chopped marshmallows like professional chefs.

I think someone loves marshmallows almost as much as I love diner cups.

This was our main course. A Pumpkin Layer Cake that my friend Nikki inspired me to make. You can check out the recipe on her blog. It's just an inspirational sort of cake don't you think? Very dinerish to. Just imagine a big wedge spinning inside one of those tall, lighted, turntable things just inside the door. I love those things.

Happy long weekend to my teacher readers, I hope you got to sleep in. Call me, I have cake:)

Surprises are the Best

2010-10-14T15:09:00.000-04:00

Turns out that when you do a blog post about a cute empty vase, you get surprised with something to fill it,

who knew?

So that someone is going to get a surprise back, something pumpkiny and layery.

More tomorrow.....

Fitting In

2010-10-13T14:34:00.000-04:00

I love you new vase. You are the happy sort, you will fit in very well in this house.

Just don't try so hard.

Homecoming 2010

2010-10-11T15:28:00.000-04:00

Last Friday I eluded to the fact that I would spend my Saturday evening surrounded by fishbowls, sea shells and teenagers. That is exactly what I did. I had a rare Saturday night free, my only one this month so I was very excited to be able to help out one of my very favorite families.

My friends Betsy and Paul just moved into a new house and decided that it would be a great time to break it in so to speak. So when their daughter Abby had plans to go to the homecoming dance, they thought why not throw a dinner party for 12 of her friends before the dance and invite all the parents over to continue the party while their kids were at the dance. Ambitious, yes, impossible-heck no. We used the schools theme, Under the Sea, and created a fun table scape with you guessed it, fishbowls, shells, sea glass and sand. One side note-don't give teenage boys their own votive candle and anything flammable, like little paper drink umbrellas, enough said.

By 4:00 their were at least 50 people on the lawn taking pictures.

I watched them as they fussed and pinned and I listened to them as they wondered where the time went.

I didn't have a child at this event, but the three girls in the pictures below were 7 when we moved here and I've watched them grow into three beautiful young women.

Paisley,

Sarah,

and Abby.

The whole thing went off without a hitch, the kids were happy and the parents were too.

Thanks everybody for letting me join the party, it was definitely a two-donut evening.

10-10-10

2010-10-10T12:51:00.000-04:00

If you read my very first blog you know how our first daughter came to us. You may not know however that we celebrate two birthdays for her every year. The other birthday happens to be today. Ten years ago today, the judge officially made us a family of three. Myah held the big, heavy gavel in her little chubby six-month old hands and we took pictures with our social worker, grandparents and attorney. Again, same as with the day of her birth, it was a quiet affair. Her last name was officially changed and the moment was again, bittersweet. Adoption is always bittersweet, there is always something broken and possibly bitter that presents the need for for a little one to come to you. But the sweet side is that a way is made for them to come.

The road they travel to get to you is never the same, ours happened to start out quietly, in a meeting with a birth mother. We only had to wait a week to find out that she had chosen us and we just knew after meeting with her that everything would turn out all right, meaning that if she chose to parent she was certainly more than capable, and if she chose us, then we were more than ready.

October 10, 2000 was a quiet, joyous celebration just like October 10, 2010 will be. We think more about how she got to us, we relive the events of that year, we think about her birthmother. We have a cake and maybe a few close family friends if we are so inclined. We never thought all those years ago on what was also a warm, sunny, October day that on her adoption birthday, someday, she would be 10 yrs old on 10/10/10. It is pretty darn cool though, just like our firstborn, Myah Jillian Scott.

Diner Friday

2010-10-08T16:39:00.001-04:00

This morning we went to a local diner called The Landmark Restaurant. I've driven past here millions of times, it happens to be across from our mall and shares a parking lot with Jo-Ann Fabrics. This was my first visit. It was very typical of a diner, the food was good, nice waitresses, and very little atmosphere. It was really clean though just like last weeks place. I ordered the eggs benedict and hash browns, it was good. The best surprise was finding a donut case at the check out counter. I hadn't seen it on the way in, I know, strange. I can usually smell donuts a mile away but I think I got thrown off by the fog of smoke we walked through at the entrance. A nice, very old couple just couldn't wait any longer so as soon as they hit the exit they lit up. I'm sure they miss the old days when places like these were host to masses of smokers.

It brought back memories of the donut shops when I was little, they were just lined up with old men drinking their coffee and smoking.

We waited until the kids got home from school to crack into the donuts. They were really good and I was happy to find them in that part of town, as there aren't any others very close and I go by that corner a lot. So all in all, a fun date, a good breakfast, and the donut treasure found. A great start for what looks to be a beautiful weekend.

I'm doing something a little out of the ordinary tomorrow, it involves teenagers, seashells, fishbowls, loads of food and lots of other things, be sure to stop back.

2010-10-06T10:23:00.000-04:00

I don't always have a plan. There I said it. I will pause now for those of you who know me well to stop laughing....... Is that long enough? Ok, good. Maybe I should have stated that differently. Sometimes I do have a plan. That's funnier isn't it.

I'll let you in on a little secret, you will not die if you don't have a plan. The benefits are many. First off, life will be full of little surprises. Some people like surprises. Secondly, every day is different, no boring routine. No lists to keep track of, no wasted trees. Thirdly, you get to drive everyone around you crazy everyday. They ask you things like "Do you even own a calendar?" My response is yes, I have a Mary Englebreit calendar that is very cute, why clutter it up. You have to be ready for the look of consternation, I am personally well acquainted with that look.

It has it's downfalls yes, that I will admit, you have to navigate in a world of 'super planners' without looking like a total idiot. You have to know how to throw around the lingo so that you get a shred of respect from people. You just keep your commitments, try not to screw up and you're home free. Sometimes it will feel like you live on an Island and everyone is zooming around on jet ski's while you are trying to enjoy a lovely picnic lunch.

Some of the time you'll get to see things that no one else will, beautiful things, things that can only be seen 'off the grid' as I like to say. Those moments will compensate for the ones that you feel alone on that island. And sometimes, you can bat your eyelashes and someone will sit down and enjoy your picnic with you.

Those moments are two-donut priceless.

Skillet

2010-10-03T15:36:00.000-04:00

Honeycrisp apples and farmers cheese shredded and folded into vanilla pancake batter served with warm rum raisin syrup and butter, mmmmmm. We carved out a couple of hours on Saturday morning to find a great breakfast and I would say that we probably found the best breakfast in Columbus, Oh. We devoured this lovely concoction at Skillet. A little restaurant in the German Village that specializes in urban, rustic, food. Check out the link and go to the menu, you won't be sorry. The chef is a genius. After breakfast we had a little time to go to the Short North and see this store. We had two great shows this weekend on our little jaunt across the state. We finished up last night in Cincinnati and made our last stop on our way home.

Sonic burgers, tots and shakes. It's a rough job, but somebody has to do it.

Diner Friday

2010-10-01T12:25:00.000-04:00

Deer Slayer and I had a few rare hours together this morning so he took me to breakfast.

This is C's Waffles in North Lima, Ohio. He meets one of his friends here regularly for lunch. It's a diner, no frills, good coffee, friendly people, just like it should be. They are known for waffles, hence the name of the restaurant, and I like a good waffle, so there was no 'waffling' about what to try. sorry.

This is the banana-split waffle with strawberries. And it was as good as it looks. So we got to thinking, why not visit a new diner every Friday. We, like any couple struggle to find/make time to do something fun, and it would be fun to blog about and breakfast food is my favorite. We have the next two Fridays figured out, but are open to your suggestions for after that.

Well now I'm off with the plaid brothers for another weekend adventure in theater, have a great weekend everyone.

Salad?, it's organic

2010-09-29T23:18:00.000-04:00

I bet you didn't know that I have a restaurant on by back deck. It's open from about 4-6 p.m. on nice days. I know, I know, I have no zoning, no signage (but that's because of the no zoning thing) no industrial kitchen. The menu is completely driven by the seasons and everything is organic (and yet possibly slightly toxic).

The smell of mint and thyme are always in the air. The 'all girl staff' range in age from 6-10 and they are serious about quality, presentation and bug control.

While they are driven by the latest trends in food, they remain true to their own aesthetic. They work quietly and diligently as a team until the plates are just right. I have noticed that their customers have a slightly different quality, imaginary almost. I'm also pretty sure this whole operation is run on some sort of honor system because I've not seen any money being exchanged. It's a very nice place, and if you are planning a visit you better call ahead...

...seating is limited.

A Donut Cures Anything

2010-09-29T08:50:00.000-04:00

In case you don't know, about 6 years ago, I cloned myself... not single-handedly, but my DNA officially won out. I never thought in a million years that this would happen. After having a beyond wonderful adoption experience with our first daughter, we were getting set for another adoption. God said, Let's try something new and different, let me create something pretty close to the original recipe, but we'll kick it up a notch, more, more, more is always better. At least I think that's what He said (because I don't think it was all those sour skittles I ate all throughout the pregnancy). So what we ended up with is a sweet and much spicier version of the original recipe. Let's just say raising yourself is quite an adventure, but it's the 'more' part that gives me the most trouble. I think I know what she's gonna do, but remember the 'kicked up' version of this recipe is spicier, saucier, you haven't had this one before. The flavors are familiar to you, comforting even, but the adaptation adds new layers. This recipe could knock it out of the park, or it could flame up on the grill. My days are an adventure, that's the only way to say it.

School has brought it's challenges for this one that likes her place on my hip, as it did for me way back when. The difference is, where I had trouble for three days at the beginning of the school years, the '4 G' version is still struggling. The separation anxiety is bringing us both down. Today, after a horrible morning yesterday, I fought it the only way I know how.... with donuts. Breakfast in bed may be the ticket. I'm not saying I'll feed the child donuts everyday, but maybe a nice wake-up will help until she's able to adapt. Raising this child has caused me to throw out the rule-book more than once. She's writing her own story, we all do, but the bottom line? A donut cures anything......I should know.

A New Season

2010-09-27T16:10:00.001-04:00

A Two Donut Weekend

2010-09-26T18:27:00.001-04:00

This weekend was a 48 hour whirlwind that involved a football game, a bridal shower and a 20th high school reunion. It was so fast and crazy that I'm not even sure if I did any of it, course that could be the late nights talking.

This is my niece-to-be, Miranda. And no, I don't stand next to her in any picture, in case you were wandering. She's not only beautiful, she's smart and loving and seems to be making my nephew a happy guy, so she's of course great in my book. I'm looking forward to their beautiful wedding in November.

And these lovely people are a few members of my graduating class. We look like a happy bunch in this picture, and of course we did a ton of laughing at and with each other last night. The turn out was slightly disappointing (I graduated with about 38) but we had a really good time anyway. The spouses were not pictured, so there were a few more people there. I also got to see a some classmates at the football game Friday night as well. When you come from a small town and a small school you bond a lot more with your classmates. We really do miss each other and it was great catching up. We even called a classmate of ours in Alaska and put him on speaker phone.

It was a great weekend, my head is spinning from lack of sleep and my house looks like a cyclone hit it, but there's nothing better in my book than spending time with people you love.

It could be even better than donuts.... there I said it, I love you more than donuts.

A

2010-09-26T18:27:00.000-04:00

Share The Love Day Four

2010-09-23T10:27:00.000-04:00

Occasionally I'll get some really great photos sent from friends. These are the best. They were taken by my good friend Tom T. I wrote about him here.

"Two Bottle Day"